Maid of Honor Speeches

Maid of Honor Speech

Posted by: admin on June 25th, 2009

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OMG you’ve been asked to give the Maid of honor speech! The joy and honor of being asked to stand as Maid of Honor is relatively short-lived before you break out in a cold sweat over the thought of standing in front of a hall filled with people, all eyes on you!

Like other Maids of Honor before you, you begin frantically racking your brain over what to say. Wondering how long it should be and whether it should be humorous or not. Then, the doubt begins to set in. “Can I actually do this”?

Yes, you can do it! I am here to help, so sit back, relax and take a deep breath.

I have got plenty of resources that will help get you through this with style and ease. You are going to deliver the best Maid of Honor speech ever. Just you wait and see!

Firstly, if the thought of giving speeches chills you to the bone, don’t worry, because you are not alone. Do you know that public speaking is one of the biggest fears people have in common the world over? And let me tell you, having experienced this myself, that the adrenaline rush you get from confronting one of your biggest fears is awesome not to mention all the other positive spin offs you will experience in other areas of your life too!

Here are my top tips for giving the best Maid of Honor speech!

1. Hypnosis Audio Downloads for Public Speaking Confidence

Self-Hypnosis is the perfect tool for helping to overcome the fear of public speaking, PLUS increase your confidence at the same time. You can find downloads specifically tailored to help people who have a fear of public speaking and be well on your way to giving the best Maid of Honor speech you ever imagined possible.

I did some research and the best audio download I found was this one, follow the link to find out more: Self Hypnosis to Beat the Fear of Public Speaking

If you decide to download the audio programme, I suggest listening to it in the evenings just before going to sleep when your mind is likely to be most receptive. Don’t worry if you fall asleep during the recording as the positive hypnotic suggestions will still be accepted by your unconscious mind. You will be astounded by the positive results that can be achieved simply by listening to this audio a couple of times a week for a month or so before the big event.

2. Get Your Hands on a Great Maid of Honor Speech

If your budget doesn’t stretch too far free Maid of Honor speeches are an option and can be tailored to suit your own personal requirements. I have added plenty of great links for free speech templates so you take a look on my links page.

But because you always get what you pay for though, you might like to check out either of these links for professionally written easy to adapt speeches:

WeddingSpeeches4U.com

InstantWeddingToasts.com

3. Practise Delivering your Speech

Many people practice delivering their speech in front of a mirror. Although this is a good option, nothing beats a live audience, so find a friend or family member if you can to practise giving your speech to. They will be able to give you valuable feedback. You are going to do great, just remember: “It will be alright on the night!” Now for the Bachellorette Party. “What! No-one told you that is a part of your maid of Honor duties too?”

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Maid of Honor Speech by a Professional

Posted by: admin on October 28th, 2009

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Have your Maid of Honor speech personally written for you by a professional. Why not? And you might be surprised to know that it will not cost you the earth!

If you really want the BEST Maid of Honor speech ever I recommend going to somewhere like Elance.com where you can hire a professional speech writer who will write a unique speech especially tailored to suit your own sense of style and humor.

A Quick Glance at How Elance works

1.  You post your job, for example: “Professional speech writer wanted to write Maid of Honor speech

2.  Elance providers put up bids for doing your job, quoting their price and the how much time it will take to completion of the project. You can view the profiles of all the providers to select the person most suited for the job. At any time up till this point you may decide to cancel the proposal with no cost to yourself.

3.  If you do decide to accept one of the bids you will transfer the funds to Elance who holds the money in Escrow until such time as the job has been completed to your satisfaction by the provider of your choice. I recommend paying approximately $35 for a quality provider who will write an excellent speech for you and I am sure you will be pleased with the result.

I have worked with Elance professionals in the past and always been pleased with the results. If you decide to treat yourself and have a personal Maid of Honor speech written I would love to hear how it turns out.

Leave me a message or post any questions you might have in the comments area.

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Posted: Matron of Honor

I’m a Matron of honor in a wedding. The maid of honor and I was planning the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Our plans were to have the all five us (matron, maid and 3 bridemaids) pitch in financially to make this a wonderful event. Is this a bad plan or is the matron and maid responsible financially for the bash?
I have been in 3 weddings and with all 3 everyone in the bridal party pitched in. Noone was left with all of the responsibility because we all wanted to bride to have a nice party. We all pitched in and helped. I’m also married and my bridal party did the same for me no certain person was left planning and paying. I just feel like everyone pitching in is alot stressful both planning and financially, and even though I’m the matron of honor the maid and bridemaids are the bride’s sisters and they are the ones not willing to pitch in and make this a great event. I myself isn’t financially able to pay for the entire bash so I really don’t know what to do. Does anyone have any ideas on what I can do for the bride and not cost a great deal?

When I was the MOH, I split the cost of the caterer with all the girls, but I paid for the decorations, favors, etc by myself. However I had a reason for doing this, I didnt want to have to OK anything with anyone, if I paid everything was my decision and I had been planning that shower since we were in High School, so I wanted total control over the party.

If you dont mind making it a democracy where everyone gets a say then yes, everyone can split the bill for everything shower related. Dont go crazy though, we had our shower at a nice catering hall witha buffet lunch, and it cost each girl $128 to throw (again I paid for the rest), so it worked within each girls budget. Keep it in mind the girls fincial statuses may not be as good as yours, so be sure to check with each girl personally (not in front of everyone) how much they can afford.

Posted: Bridesmaid Speeches

My friend is going to be the bridesmaid in her sisters wedding. Any suggestions on what should/should not be said!?

I would just like to say that I wish you both all the love and happiness in the world,And today marks for a new beginning for now and forever,And i for one could not be happier for the two of you congratulations MR.and MRS whom ever

Mary’s Maid of Honor Toast

Posted by: admin on October 19th, 2009

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Excellent Maid of Honor toast. You’ll laugh and cry! The youngest sister gives the best speech- bride’s older sister in heaven (Cathy) gets props too!

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SAMARA’S MAID OF HONOR SPEECH

Posted by: admin on October 19th, 2009

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Samara’s Maid of Honor Speech for Lori and John, July 28, 2007

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Posted: Matron of Honor

What’s the difference between a maid of honor and matron of honor?

There is only one difference. A maid of honor is a woman who is single and not married. A matron of honor is a woman who is married. They both have the same duties and responsibilities, it’s just if they are married or not.

Maid of Honor Toast

Posted by: admin on October 12th, 2009

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Maid of Honor Toast at sister’s wedding

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Best Maid of Honor Speech Ever

Posted by: admin on October 12th, 2009

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Angie and Brad’s Wedding – Heather’s Speech

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Maid of Honor Duties

Posted by: admin on October 7th, 2009

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 I have created this Maid of Honor checklist to help you make sure you know exactly what your Maid of Honor duties are going to be.

This is certainly an honor to have been chosen as Maid of Honor and to be able to enjoy the occasion you must be organized. Consider yourself the ‘glue that holds the stuff together!’ In basic terms you will be everywhere from behind the scenes preparing and primping to the very forefront of meeting, greeting and seating, plus let’s not forget the Maid of Honor Speeches.

Every wedding is different and so your role will vary. You may have a very minor role if the Bride has arranged to hire a wedding planner or her Mother is highly involved and you may have a central role nothing short of wedding planner and Mother all wrapped into one wonderful Maid of Honor. Your Maid of Honor Duties are certainly not something to be taken lightly.

The Maid of Honor Checklist

“Take a look over the checklist so you know what your Maid of Honor duties should be and then discuss with the Bride and clarify what duties she is expecting from you”

 

  1. Hen Party or Bachellorette Party
  2. Shopping for and choosing the wedding dress, bridesmaid dresses together as the Bride wishes
  3. You will be in charge of co-ordinating the other bridesmaid duties, bridesmaid etiquette and liaise with the Best Man
  4. Bridal shower to be arranged by you with assistance of bridesmaids and possibly Mother of the Bride
  5. Arrange the Bride’s train if she has one and double check she looks her best for photos ie. no lipstick on teeth etc
  6. Hold the Bride’s bouquet during ceremony
  7. Sign as witness on the marriage license
  8. Dance at wedding usually with the Best Man
  9. Toast the Bride and Groom
  10. Personalize the honeymoon suite with scented candles, champagne, chocolates, rose petals etc.
As you can see, Maid of Honor duties are not for the faint hearted and whilst performing all these duties you must also be sure to look your best as you will be in almost all the photos and you may even need to help the photographer getting everyone in place, but you will do great and I know this because your best friend or sister would not have asked you if she did not have every faith that you will be the best at all these Maid of Honor duties.
If you keep a note-book handy and jot down funny experiences along the way, whilst trying on dresses or choosing flowers, you will usually find that these go a long way to creating great Maid of Honor speeches.
Have fun!

 

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